Everyone knows that marriage is a commitment between two individuals. But its success and failure depends upon the partners involved. Many factors contribute to make a marriage relation happy or unhappy. The factors responsible for an unhappy marriage are:
1. In an unhappy marriage a couple usually fails to share its emotions and beliefs. This failure further reveals the couple as an ineffective listener. As a result a communication gap comes between them.
2. An unhappy couple fails to maintain flexibility in their marriage. They are not able to discharge off their duties successfully. They are adamant and stick to their old rules that do not allow them to transform with the passage of time.
3. An unhappy couple also fails in maintaining compatibility with others. In other words they have a high personal compatibility level.
4. Unhappy couples do not possess any skill to resolve a quarrel.
5. In an unhappy marriage the couple requires a counseling therapy from an experienced marriage counselor, who could help them out at an early stage. The counselor then works with the couple to speak more effectively and handle the problem in a more positive manner.
6. An unhappy couple does not place marriage as their main concern.
7. In unhappy marriage, one spouse wants to be superior to the other. He or she always avoid and downgrade the ambitions of the other.
8. Often there is exchange of argues, shouting, and fighting that indicates the confrontational behavior of the couple.
9. When you do something kind and unselfish for the first time it's good. But if you have done it once its more like an apathy.
10. While you are in a party with your friends and colleagues, do not talk harsh about your spouse. But still if you speak it would also lower your esteem and repute among your friends.
By Sabrina Kinam
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